This is a short that I recently directed and produced along with the help and beautiful, creative camera work by Dave Justo Productions. I recently have been actively working on a campaign I created, entitled, Just Say Enough: Speaking out against Dating Violence. Our Facebook page with more information can be found at: www.facebook.com/JustSayEnough . My main goal is to raise awareness about dating violence which is a problem that is suppressed in our society and something that needs to be addressed and put to an end.
The goal of this film was to evoke emotions in people as well as passion and to help them know it is okay to speak up, they are not alone and they no longer need to fear or feel ashamed or embarrassed. The film was especially powerful to make because everyone who stepped up and involved themselves in the film, had either directly been involved in an abusive situation or knew someone who was. The beginning illustrates the person’s situation in an abusive situation; you are silenced and feel ashamed or embarrassed; you are made to believe it is not okay to speak up.
The ripping of the tape symbolizes the pain of speaking out. Yes, it will hurt like hell at first, but it will be worth going through with it. That pain will only be temporary in comparison to staying in a violent situation and remaining quiet. The end is more uplifting and trying to encourage the viewer to get help and to be aware of their loved ones and to ensure that they have a support system in us if they need it. Parents need to be aware of how prevalent dating violence is, especially in middle school and high school as well as college. Children have health class and sex education in most schools, but they also need to learn about dating violence and what is considered a healthy relationship so they can avoid dangerous and detrimental situations.